Do You See?

While people’s inclinations seem to be the same from generation to generation, the nuances of the differences in issues can vary.  One of those issues that has changed faster than our relational insights, has been around technology – particularly cell phones.  I can assure you that 20 years ago I was not dealing with this…

The Number One Problem in Marriage

What is the most prominent problem in marriage?  You might be thinking – your wife or husband.  But I would argue they are a person not a problem.  Many marriage experts have suggested that the biggest factors leading to troubled marriages are items such as: technology, children, pornography, stress, or finances.  But blogger Malinda Fuller…

Who is in Charge?

As you read the title of today’s thoughts, and you begin to consider “who is in charge,” you may find your mind jumping to one of two places – either “he or she is,” or “I am.”  But therein may be the problem. In his book Kingdom Man, Dr. Tony Evans tells of the impact…

Messy Imperfection

Have you ever found yourself sitting with someone who “has it all together?”  They seem to have the perfect tan, the ideal job, the flawless children, unmatchable vacations, teeth that can’t get any whiter, and not a hair out of place.  How relaxed did you feel in their presence?  My guess is, not very.  Instead…

Is Love Scarce?

I will never forget after my first child was born how amazed I was that I could feel such love for a “little person.”  It was overwhelming.  So, when my second child was about to enter the world five years later – I was concerned.  I knew the enormity of my love for the first…

Choose

What do you choose?  We make choices everyday – should I get a big Mac or a salad? (I know the best answer – but don’t always like it)  Will I watch the movie or change the channel to a sitcom?  Do I wear the blue shirt or the maroon one?   Hundreds of choices are…

Old Tapes – Part Two

I have recently come across some old cassette tapes of music that I have loved from years gone by.  I have been converting these into CDs so that I can still enjoy these classic bands in my car.  I am amazed at how powerful these old tapes can be in transporting me back in time…

Old Tapes – Part One

My kids would say that I am showing my age here when I talk about “old tapes.”  Those could be referring to cassettes, VHS, Beta, 8 Track, and so on – if you’re old enough to remember those.  For those of you who are younger – just replace the word “tape” with MP3, flash drive,…