Can You Be Split?

Don’t be fooled! Those kids of yours are smarter than you may think. Oh, sure – they may look innocent enough, but they are shrewd. You see, with no training, those children somehow know how to take two seemingly intelligent adults and pit them against each other. They know and are competent at splitting us…

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BUT

Why is it that there is such disparity in people’s degree of success, happiness, and enjoyment of life?  There are no simple answers and I am sure there are a variety of contributing factors for these differences.   But one reason, that I want to discuss today is “but.”  It is a word that sometimes is…

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Build a Hedge

When I first moved to Colorado, I planted a row of Ponderosa Pines on the back of my property.  My hope was that they would one day grow to create a barrier and with that, offer some privacy.  You may have planted bushes or built a wooden fence between you and your neighbors in order…

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Bring Back Fun

Remember when you used to look forward to getting home to your spouse, when you couldn’t wait to have the weekend together?  Remember when the relationship was fun?  For some, fun was two kids and twenty years ago.  But for most, fun was a central part of your relationship early on.  In a university study…

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Boost the Economy

Did you know that marriage can improve the economy? You might be thinking, “Well, of course it can. I mean have you seen how much it costs to put on a wedding? Think about it – you have the venue, flowers, save the date cards, invitations, reception dinner, the band or DJ, the hotel, the…

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Black Friday

Ok – before you start to think that this is another “Black Friday” ad, I promise – it is not.  You have no doubt had your fill of those.  We sat on Thanksgiving afternoon watching ad after ad each declaring the unbelievable deals that their particular store would have on “Black Friday” – beginning at…

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Big Weddings

I recall watching an episode of “Everybody Loves Raymond,” in which we are transported back to when Raymond and Debra decided to get married. Debra talked about how she had dreamed of getting married since she was a little girl.   Over the years she had thought about what she would wear, the size of the…

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Be Present

I have an acquaintance whose husband was killed in an auto accident this past week.  I found out about it because it was on the front page of the paper.  While that may seem unusual, it is not if you play an important role in a major hotel chain.  We were very sad for the…

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