I’ll Get Around to It

I had a client a couple of years ago who had Attention Deficit Disorder and worked remotely in his job– in other words, he worked for a company, but worked from home.  Now he liked working from home because he could work whatever hours and in whatever attire he desired . . . .  as…

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I Love You

I noted some interesting trends as I was reading a recent worldwide study of thousands of couples.  One of the findings indicated that among the happiest couples, 85% of both men and women said those three magical words at least once a week – “I love you.”  Now, you may read that and think, “well…

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I Have the Power

I remember when my boys were young, every day that watched the cartoon show, “He Man.”  At some point in the show, He Man would need to defeat some evil force or correct some injustice, and he would stand boldly, holding his sword to the sky proclaiming, “I have the power.”  And with that pronouncement,…

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I Assumed You Knew

It has been a long week, working long hours with unexpected emergencies at the office, and frankly, you’re exhausted.  You are so very much looking forward to Saturday on the couch with an afternoon of college football.  As you gather your favorite snacks and beverages, you flip on the TV.  You are just about to…

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How’s Your Thermostat?

Now I can imagine this morning that you are wondering what in the world thermostats have to do with your marriage or relationship.  You may be thinking that perhaps I am going to talk about the temperature gauge of your relationships or something like that.  But actually, it is going to be different than you…

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How’s Your Faith?

There are a variety of answers out there to this question. Some might say, “It is central to who I am,” while others may respond with “Faith? What faith? I don’t have faith in anything anymore.” But can faith in God – a developed and active faith in God make a difference in your everyday…

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How’s Your Date Night?

Now if your first thought is, “What date night?” then this might be a timely post. Depending on your season of life, date nights can look very differently. If you are young with no children or are empty nesters, you may find date nights fairly easy to put together. But if you are like so…

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How’s the New Year Going?

So, we are about a month into the new year and I am wondering how it is going for you? Did you make any resolutions? Set any new goals? Dream up any new things you would like to see happen in 2023? If so – how’s it going? For many the resolutions and goals have…

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How You Say It

Have you ever been told that the problem with your communication is not what you say but how you say it?  Most of us have heard that at one time or another.  Because we may not choose the best phrase or words, what we say is misunderstood and our best intentions go by the wayside. …

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How Valuable is It?

I was startled and saddened to read that the most recent numbers for suicide rates in El Paso County, for the 10-18 age bracket, have doubled.  For those of you reading this who are not from Colorado, El Paso County is the name of the county that encompasses Colorado Springs. The $173,000 study went on…

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