Does the Whining Help?

My mother is the mildest mannered and least confrontational person that I know.  So, it was interesting, and out of character, for her to recently comment to a family member, “I think if they took the word complain out of the English language, you wouldn’t have anything to say.” Let’s face it, we like to…

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Does Modeling Matter?

I recently read about a woman from New Mexico. One of her parents was a teacher and the other was a nurse. On nights and weekends they would do volunteer work. They were both committed to a life of service. The woman herself became a physician and works with the homeless community and has for…

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Does Anything Else Matter?

“I want to thank my family: my wife Regina and my son Harry. Thank you. Just seriously, thank you for being my family. I love you both, and really nothing else matters, does it?”  These were some of the final words of farewell from Dave Letterman this past week.  After 33 years as host of…

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Do Your Screens Have Purpose?

We frequently hear or read news reports indicating that too much screen time is bad for our kids as well as ourselves.  Therefore we may find ourselves nagging them, as well as chastising ourselves, to turn off the TV, quit starring at the phone, or shut down the computer.  And while too much time on…

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Do Your Kids Suffer from HDD?

As you read that title, you are probably thinking it is a typo and that I actually meant ADD.  However, it wasn’t a typo.  Dr. Charles Fay recently used this term in referring to kids who display, what he calls, “Honesty Deficit Disorder.”  If you are like most parents, your response may be – “Oh,…

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Do You Want to Slow Aging?

“Well,” you may think, “That’s a dumb question. Of course I want to slow aging but there is just no way to do it. The candles on the birthday cake just keep adding up.” While it is true that our aging numbers get larger every year, that doesn’t mean that we have to age at…

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Do You Want to Put Out the Fire?

I remember when my boys were younger and we would go camping multiple times every summer. We loved to fish, hike, and at night, sit by the campfire and eat smores. I recall how much Jeremy, the oldest enjoyed methodically gathering firewood. He would scavenger the area looking for loose limbs, but he most enjoyed…

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Do You Want to Live?

Now that may seem like a strange question with an obvious answer of “Yes!”  But I’m not sure that it really is.  Or perhaps we need to define what “live” means.  If it means, do we want our heart to keep beating and our lungs to continue to inhale and exhale, then the answer may…

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Do You Want to Help Your Brain?

If Mondays matter, and I believe that they do, if only seems to make sense that we will be able to make a bigger difference in the lives around us if our brain is functioning at its best.  While the following items probably won’t be huge surprises, I want to report five items that can…

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