“I Have the Power”

When my boys were young, they used to watch the cartoon series “He Man.” From those decades ago, the theme song still echoes in my head along with the picture of “He Man” standing with his sword stretched out above his head, proclaiming those words, “I have the power.” While I may not have the…

How to Soften Your Arguments

Bret was working out in the garage when Susan came out to discuss a sticky situation with him regarding one of the children. She knew that they had different perspectives on the situation and would probably disagree on how best to handle this. As they talked (actually – argued), Bret could feel his blood pressure…

How to Improve Your Memory

Do you want to improve your memory?  I see this question posed more and more today through unsolicited mail, newspaper ads, and television commercials (at least that is what I recall).  As we find ourselves living longer, this becomes an issue of ever increasing concern.  So how do I improve my memory?  And as you…

What Do You Cherish?

I recently received the following humorous story from a friend. A husband went to police station to report his missing wife: Husband : I’ve lost my wife, she went shopping yesterday & has still not come home…. Sergeant : What is her height ? Husband : Oh, 5 something . . . Sergeant : Build?…

Experience Healing

Your husband comes home angry and yells at you.  Your wife makes condescending remarks to you in front of the kids.  Your spouse says hurtful things to you that don’t seem fair or accurate.  How do you respond? Perhaps, in your woundedness, you lash back – speaking harshly of them in front of others or…