Now that might seem like a strange question, but we all make decisions – somewhere in our brain. Some people are very analytical, attempting to gather every data point they can in order to make the most reasoned decision possible. Others often make decisions based upon what their “gut” tells them.
Some are methodical, taking lots of time before they take action. While still others make snap judgments on the spot. Those who are quick can get impatient with those who take more time. While those taking longer to process may believe others are being reckless with their “hurried” decisions. So, are we better off to make decisions from the “head” or the “heart?”
I appreciate the words of one therapist, Ryan Pannell, who writes, “Emotions are like our children. We listen to them. We care for them. We just don’t allow them to make major decisions for our family.”
Emotions are important and God equipped us with them for a reason. They give us insight and perspective that is necessary for balanced decision making. But we have to be careful. Emotions can be as dependable and ever changing as a Colorado weather forecast. Just because the local meteorologist tells me that it will be 70 degrees and sunny tomorrow, ahead of an incoming snowstorm, doesn’t mean that I shouldn’t bring along a jacket just in case the storm hits early. My feelings today can change just that quickly by tomorrow.
If you want to make the best decisions, I encourage you to balance your rational long-term thinking with the nuances and confirmation of your emotions. If your head and your heart are in agreement, you will make better decisions. When they disagree, my experience would recommend either waiting or moving forward thoughtfully with your rational thinking.
Happy decision-making!