As you read this title, you may be thinking one of two things – “Of course I support my spouse,” or “I used to support him or her, but I’ve gotten out of the habit.” Regardless of where you land, supporting each other is essential for a healthy marriage. Today I want to take a brief look at three important ways we can support each other.
1) Support is important through hardship. This could include the loss of a job, a loved one, or even an illness or injury. At some point in time, we will likely experience all three of these situations, as well as others. Consoling your mate, encouraging him or her, or even physically helping, in the case of an injury or surgery, are all a part of loving them.
2) Support in a new venture can inspire trust. Tackling a new endeavor can be intimidating and a bit overwhelming. But having your mate as your biggest cheerleader can give you the confidence that you need to take the risk, knowing that they will be there with you regardless of the outcome.
3) Support during a crisis, big or small, reminds you that you are not alone. I remember once when my wife was out of town and her car became stuck in a ditch on a country road. As she sent me pictures of the situation and we determined the best course of action, she knew that she was not alone.
Supporting our mate, as well as being supported by them, is a part of what a lifelong partnership is all about.