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Who Are You

Discover Your Identity Through Stories of Courage, Surrender, Messiness, Determination, and Faith
By Dr. Barry D. Ham

Product Description:

“Who Are You?” is a foundational question. But the answer is seemingly elusive to so many. In an effort to look like we have it all together or to project some desired image, we can get very good at wearing disguises. But living with a façade can be exhausting.

With care and insight, author and therapist, Dr. Barry Ham shares 12 unique stories of individuals who have faced, potentially, life derailing experiences. Yet, with each story comes a fresh perspective.

If you have ever wanted to abandon the need for a disguise and learn to live boldly, this is your opportunity.

In this book, you can discover . . .

• • How to stop pretending
  • Ways to fight those feelings of “not being good enough”
  • What really defines you
  • How to live authentically
  • Ways to enjoy the journey
  • What it means to live NOW

Reviews

Dr. Barry Ham’s newest publication, “Who Are You?”, takes us on a journey filled with inspiration and hope that transcends the lives of these twelve (12) individuals facing physical and/or emotional adversity.

We Having 42 years of clinical experience with “soul torn war veterans”, vehicular accident survivors, and others facing life changing significant losses – Dr Ham offers his readers, including myself, the opportunity to experience a personal relationship with Christ beyond the “knowing” of Him in a cognitive framework. But, rather, a partnership relationship in its’ fullest complexity.

“Who Are You?” becomes “Who Am I?,” as our definition of self is transformed beyond our accomplishments. It becomes an intimate focus on “how am I allowing my faith’ to guide my path”, heal my injuries, and beyond in this existential challenge called Life. Claire and the Crosby family singing You Say (You Tube) by Lauren Daigle, referenced and endorsed in Dr. Ham’s publication – makes it all clear, as I listen to Him, and I Believe.
Gary Cosel, Psy.D.
(Retired, Mental Health Professional)
Colorado Springs, CO

I have known Barry Ham for nearly 20 years. In that time, I have seen his passion for helping individuals struggling with the circumstances of life. He writes with intentionality and purpose and I highly recommend his books to enhance your journey.
Gary Chapman
Author of The Five Love Languages

Who Are You is a transformative exploration of our identity in God, weaving together scripture, personal anecdotes, and theological insights. Barry delves deeply into what it means to be created in God’s image, offering practical applications for everyday life. Each chapter is a journey toward understanding our divine purpose and the unique gifts bestowed upon us. The book is both comforting and challenging, urging readers to embrace their true selves while growing in their faith. It’s an essential read for anyone seeking a deeper connection with God and a clearer sense of their identity.
Rich Griffith.
Church pastor, former NFL Player

Relationship on Purpose

8 Strategies Guaranteed to Improve Your Marriage or Significant Relationship
By Dr. Barry D. Ham

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For far too many, marriage has become a prison sentence to be endured rather than an exciting adventure to be explored. But don’t give up just yet. You were created to experience God’s best in your most significant relationship!

With more than 25 years in the counselor’s chair, author and therapist Dr. Barry Ham has taken the principles that have repeatedly shown success with couples and condensed them into 8 bite-sized skills.

In this book, discover . . .

• Steps to tearing down the walls between you and your spouse
• Ways to be intentional in your relationship interactions
• Changes that will avert relationship crisis
• Actions that help to rebuild trust
• Hands on practical strategies that you can use immediately

Overcome apathy and discouragement!

Begin Transforming Your Relationship Today!

Reviews

While there are many books about marriage in the marketplace, this book is unique. Barry has really created more of a handbook with practical strategies that you can put into practice immediately to improve your relationship. If you want to experience rapid positive change in your marriage, I recommend these 8 strategies.

Gary Chapman, Author of The Five Love Languages

 

Even the most committed and loving marriages will face stress, conflict, and misunderstanding. Many devoted couples find their relationships suffering without knowing exactly how they got there. In Relationship on Purpose, Dr. Barry Ham offers eight specific strategies geared toward avoiding the most common pitfalls in marriage. If you’ll take his advice to heart and implement the tools he lays out, you’re sure to see your relationship with your spouse grow, deepen, and even flourish.

Dr. Greg Smalley, Vice President of Marriage at Focus on the Family

Married on Purpose

A 91 Day Devotional to Ignite Your Most Intimate Relationship
By Dr. Barry D. Ham

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For most, marriage begins with an abundance of hope and promise.  But as the years creep by, individuals often grow complacent, taking each other for granted, and eventually may cease making any genuine efforts to inject new energy into the marriage.

When you said “I do,” you most likely envisioned a fun, loved filled, life-long, meaningful companionship.  Yet, you may have discovered that your marriage hasn’t quite measured up to that original ideal.  But what if it could?

Author and therapist Dr. Barry Ham takes you on a 91 day journey on which you can:

• Discover and put into practice new and effective relational skills
• Re-energize your marriage relationship.
• Dream with your spouse of possibilities, all over again.

Living On Purpose

Knowing God’s Design for Your Life
By Dr. Barry D. Ham

Product Description:

For many, searching for their life’s purpose is a frustrating and fruitless pursuit. But don’t despair! You were created to live a significant life!

With wisdom and care, author, counselor, and therapist, Dr. Barry Ham leads you to the key that unlocks a life of meaning: knowing and fulfilling the will of God.

If you have ever doubted your life’s worth, floundered in search of direction, or been burdened by a feeling of insignificance, the insights within these pages will lead you to the confidence that comes with finding your purpose in God’s faithful hands.

Discover…

Validation: it is both normal and healthy to ponder the meaning of life.

Encouragement: the purpose of your life is clear and knowable.

Fulfillment: the blessings of following God’s will are within your reach.

Transformation: discovering your purpose positively impacts every sphere of life.

Reviews

“You see our existence here on this earth, yours and mine, is not an accident. Our Creator had very specific things in mind when He placed us here. And at one time or another, most of us ask ourselves, “Ok, why am I here? What is my existence all about?” Those are some of the very reasons that Barry wrote this book – so that you don’t have to wonder and wander, so you don’t have to guess, but so that you can clearly know God’s purposes for your life.”

Governor Mike Huckabee

“For too many individuals, knowing God’s will seems a far-off, mysterious, difficult to understand process.  In the pages of Living on Purpose, author Barry Ham brings clarity to the believer who seeks to better grasp God’s purpose for their life.”

“Living on Purpose is an excellent, thought-provoking, God-loving and think-activating book to help in your quest to find and follow God’s direction for your life.”

Josh D. McDowell
Author/Speaker

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Unstuck

Escaping the Rut of a Lifeless Marriage
By Dr. Barry D. Ham

Product Description:

Do you feel stuck in your marriage or distanced from your spouse? Maybe you’ve reached the point where you feel like roommates – two people just co-existing together. Every marriage goes through these “dry spells.”

God knows how to heal your relationship and wants to breathe life back into you marriage! Marriage therapist Dr. Barry Ham gives you the tools needed to navigate through the hard times in your relationship – sharing inspirational stories of couples who worked through the “marriage rut.”

Learn how to:

• Change the atmosphere of your relationship – and see your spouse through God’s eyes.
• Sustain a passionate and vibrant marriage for year to come – and learn to build a solid foundation.
• Reconnect with your spouse on a deeply intimate level – and heal from past hurts together.
• Build a successful and unshakeable marriage – and learn how to keep God at the center.

Reviews

“Unstuck is real. With stories and examples that most couples will relate to, this book encourages couples on how to put God at the center and choose to love one another again. For many unhappy couples, the gloom of marriage came out of nowhere, and Barry helps them find the love they always wanted.”

Dr. Tim Clinton, President of the American Association of Christian Counselors

“Barry Ham has great passion for helping couples who have found marriage difficult.  For those who are stuck, this book offers practical help on how to get UNSTUCK.

I highly recommend it.”

Gary Chapman, Ph.D. author of The Five Love Languages

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Unstuck – Study Guide

Escaping the Rut of a Lifeless Marriage
By Dr. Barry D. Ham

Product Description:

This Study Guide is a companion to the book Unstuck: Escaping the Rut of a Lifeless Marriage.  If you long to get your marriage unstuck and lift it to a place of vibrancy, this is the ideal book to help you accomplish that.  The Study Guide is perfect for couples, small groups, or can even be used by individuals. 

Reviews

“In this book Barry identifies many of the pitfalls that have contributed to marriages becoming stale and lifeless.  But more importantly, he offers clear guidelines and strategies to enable couples to reverse this trend, get unstuck, and experience the marriage that both they and God had in mind.”

HB London: Pastor, Pastor to Pastor Emeritus – Focus on the Family, Author: Pastors at Greater Risk

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The Book, Study Guide, and Flash Drive Combination Package

Escaping the Rut of a Lifeless Marriage
By Dr. Barry D. Ham

Product Description:

Order this Two Book – Flash Drive Combination Package and receive these recent releases: a signed copy of Unstuck: Escaping the Rut of a Lifeless Marriage and Unstuck – The Study Guide, and the companion Video Course, Unstuck: Rejuvenating Marriages the Have Grown Complacent.

This is a retail value of $111.97 for the discounted price of $39.99.  This combination package also comes with FREE shipping and handling.

If you are interested in multiple book sets for your Bible Study or Community Group, contact and learn how to get the Video Course for your group for Free!

The Book and Study Guide Combination Package

Escaping the Rut of a Lifeless Marriage
By Dr. Barry D. Ham

Product Description:

Order this Two Book Combination Package and receive these recent releases: a signed copy of Unstuck: Escaping the Rut of a Lifeless Marriage and Unstuck – The Study Guide.

This is a retail value of $31.98 for the discounted price of $29.99.  This combination package also comes with FREE shipping and handling.

GOD Understands Divorce:

A Biblical Message of Grace
By Dr. Barry D. Ham

Product Description

God Understands Divorce is a comprehensive compilation of real-life marriage situations that explain how quickly relationships can deteriorate and how to bring life back to terminally ill marriages.

Pulled from the author’s counseling sessions in which he has helped numerous couples restore their relations, the circumstances and problems presented hit home dramatically. Knowing the fundamentals of living within a happy home—love, respect, finances, sex, chores, careers, children—isn’t always enough.

Knowing how to bring those fundamentals to life through God’s grace and mercy gives every husband and wife a healthy base on which to build for years of marital bliss and to weather the storms of challenges that inevitably arise.

Reviews

“As Christian couples experience divorce at an alarming rate, individuals cry out, wondering if there are any real answers or solutions. Does anybody really care?

In these pages, Barry reveals that God has been where you are, He knows your pain, He desires wholeness for you, and He offers clear guidance to enable you to get there. He really cares!” —Gary Chapman

“Dr. Barry Ham writes with a marvelous mixture of compassion and conviction. His life’s calling is to help others not just find answers to challenges, but to also discover the root cause of their problems.” —Paul Batura

CLICK HERE to read the first chapter for FREE.